I sit here with this question ringing in my head since a friend so bluntly asked me this on Friday. “I don’t know.” I sat there struggling to find words because I realized I have no idea. I continued to tell him that I don’t know if I will ever feel happy again. I explained
If you’ve ever been to France I think you can agree that it always feels like home. I get the most amazing welcome and loving embrace upon arrival. I’ve been to France on two different occasions. Each time I visit I get this sense of relief when I’m there that I can’t really explain.You know
Friendships, relationships, life experiences, trials and tribulations. What’s the point behind them? Why do they have to be so fucking hard? I used to ask myself this constantly. We wonder what we did to deserve X Y and Z when really we need to change how we reflect on situations as a whole. I ask you to consider the
As we sat at my dining room table I watched silently while the sadness and frustration took over his mind. I stared into his big brown eyes and saw a broken man who just wanted to be treated as an equal. That day my heart sank to depths I’ll never be able to explain. Not only was
I had a friend going through some really hard times in his life a couple months ago and they said the most devastating thing to me: I just want someone to care. I’m not trying to be selfish I know my parents care about all of this stuff but that’s natural they’re my parents. I
I wonder, have you ever crossed the street because of a male approaching you? I wonder, have you ever put a hat and sunglasses on in hopes of less cat calling. I wonder, have you ever had a man ask you out then verbally assault you when you say no thank you. I wonder, have
Silence is our biggest enemy. We fear it more than anything because that’s when we fall into the oblivion of our mind. Maybe that’s why we were so good with each other. Maybe we just made it work to ease our minds for awhile. Maybe we were just there as a voice to drown out
What if I told you I’m 20lbs overweight. Would you believe me? According to Canada’s Body Mass Index calculator I am not in the weight range I should be for my height. The healthy range for a woman of my stature (5′) is between.. wait for it.. 98-128lbs. How much do I weigh? 147lbs. And
They say that if you want to achieve something you have to make a plan but until you have an actual map outlining how to reach your goals, they are merely your dreams and aspirations. Today I’m going to outline how to achieve my one year goals. The first step is to make them realistic.
You can think yourself out of happiness a million times over. I know it. I’ve done it. But what did overthinking do for me? Nothing. Not once did it make me happy, it didn’t change a situation, it just made me miserable. Change your perspective and you’ll change your life.